Saturday, June 21 2025
Saturday, June 21 2025
An extreamly rare condo just came on the market. You can walk to Waikiki and University of Hawaii. The reason? I believe it's due to the a new taller tower being built nearby. But it will not block the important Manoa Valley view, nor the sunset over the rest of Honolulu. There will be a gain of 4 new street shops. Crossing my fingers for a neighborhood coffee shop! It's rare to see a two bedroom, and two bathrooms at this price! And frankly, this building is far better built than anything else going up in Honolulu.
I do not know the current owners. This is just to let anyone that reads my blog to know that this is an extremely rare opportunity to move into a well maintained, well built building with a beautiful pool and outdoor area. and EVERYTHING is included in the HOA: water, electric, and cable. As well as one of the few buildings that accept pets.
Bonus, you get to be my neighbor and possibly gain some amazing friends! Just be chill when Monty gives the final review and approval. And please replace that horribly ugly fan!
Friday, June 20 2025
Bae created illustrations of our neighbors pets that recently passed. I am shocked how well he captures the fine details by hand using an Apple pencil. My illustrations are worse than a toddler with a marker.
There had been a vote earlier to ban new pets from living in our building. That is so cruel. There are few places in Honolulu that allow pets. It's the same as telling people their children are not allowed.
I cannot believe it's Friday already. Bae has a $50 gift certificate for Rigo Spanish Italian restaurant. But for certain meals, it's dinner only. I rarely eat that late in the day. It looks to be a nice place for dinner and maybe worth the acid reflux. lol
Bae and I had too much caffiene yesterday since we went to the Manoa Marketplace and had big lattes. Then we got some pepperoni and sausage pizza slices. Picked up some fresh vegetables from the farmer's market there. We took the dogs to the Manoa park to do some light tree bathing. The babbeling brook of the Manoa stream is zen. I was surprised not to see a few meditators along the grassy meadow there.
Our friend is back in town, so we will be joining him for lunch or early dinner soon. I am excited to actually speak to someone in the outside world. Also, I am curious to know how his Google NotebookLM studies is coming along? I am wondering how he is using it. I could use some tips from someone that has to consume alot of information like he does. He is pursing his degree as a Nurse Practitioner. In my eyes, as an Epic IT Analyst, a doctor that does more.
Just made reservations for Bae's birthday. Going to try Dean & Deluca's Hawaii 5 course Afternoon Tea at the Ritz Carlton Waikiki. Kama'aina discount $5
I am looking forward to maybe scheduling a hike soon. I seriously need a jungle hike with some mountain vistas. Maybe some time in the mountain clouds would be nice. I keep putting off joining a hiking group here on Oahu. I am afraid that I likely would not be able to keep up with even the older groups. I can walk long distances, but inclines where there is less air takes me time and lots of breaks.
It's laundry day already! I will be tied to the house all day.
I will say with authority that the biggest issue with married life is only having one toilet and being on the same bathroom schedule. There is a condo in our building for sale that says it has two bathrooms. I am really curious how that is possible considering the contraints of the floorplans. I want to convert one of our linen closets to a water closet.
Need to plan more for this weekend. So while I am working today, I will get busy on some.
Make it a great weekend - Aloha! - Blake
Thursday, June 19 2025
Monty gave me morning snuggles, which became a Frenchton face massage for him. I cannot imagine living in Hawaii covered in fur. So we try to keep their big outings only early mornings or late evenings. But it is another perfect Summer day outside. Monty did not want to come back inside after his walk.
Our Jasper is getting up there in age and he cannnot see much these days. We have to be careful taking him on walks because he will absolutely walk into things if we are not leading him. It's heartbreaking when he misses a step. Something that is more and more common. We may be shopping for a baby carriage soon, just so he does not have to take the stairs. He looks great for his age and has not slowed down, but has become more hesitant since he cannot see much in front of his face. Nordstrom has this huge selection of carriages and strollers that I admire. They remind me of the wealthy Japanese women in Tokyo with their pups all dressed up in their expensive strollers. These things are decked out, cup holders, multiple shelves, pockets and retracking shades. Some have tires for off-roading on the beach. But we will have to settle for a second hand from Savers, maybe I can score a cup holder that I can attach?
Bae picked up Samosas from our India Market. They are so good, especially with their sweet orange sauce. He had to pick up black tea, something I need to switch to drinking rather than all the coffee I consume in the morning. I was looking at their web site this morning and had no idea they have this huge wall of DVD selections. I will definitely be checking it out the next time I am over there.
He also got me wrapped up watching Bravo's Love Hotel. I cannot believe I am watching this clap trap. These people are CRINGE. But I guess that is what brings the audience. I certainly fell into it. I am impressed how well these old people keep themselves maintained. But I will admit I am not finding any of them inspirational in any sense. More like watching a sad show of lost souls. It's not so much they need Jesus, as much as a therapist that does not live in LA. I guess I need the same therapy since I watched 3 episodes this morning!
I have to find a tool to speed up my online studies. I love Google NotebookLM. But I seem to keep running out of time to complete videos or what ever tutorials provided. I will be honest in that I too often fall for Monty's puppy dog eyes when he brings his toys to play fetch or tug-of-war. Or falling into Bae's soap obsession.
Wednesday, June 18 2025
Seriously! My friends and neighbors. Check this out! I have added an Events page. Available from the drop down at the top left corner of this site. (lines that look like a modernist hamburger.) Or the heading which I made into a hyperlink.
I am constantly amused at those that say they having nothing to do here on Oahu. Some of these events will be super crowded, so be prepared and bring your own water bottle just in case. But I have never been disappointed in going to any event on the island. I figured this would be a good hump day post to possibly get you thinking about your weekend and plan your summer. It's never too late to plan to enjoy going somewhere in Hawaii, it's perpetual summer!
On a more serious note, Bae is getting a $10,000 bill for dental work for one tooth. Out of pocket. Insurance industry are absolutely crooks, they cover less and less, yet continue to increase their rates. Anyone that thinks otherwise is an unfortunate simpleton. This is more than three times what I was charged for the same work at the same place just a couple years ago. This is a statistically impossible figure to justify. Looking at rates, it would make more sense to drop insurance and save up and just pay out of pocket for far less money. It was already impossibly expensive to live in Hawaii, but with these kinds of bills, it may soon become unattainable.
On another note, who is going to use AI to replace the insurance industry? There is absolutely no need for them if it can all be automated. Instead, the industry is using it to charge you more for less or nothing.
I hope your doing well. Keep doing what you can do.
People watching at some events is still free (for now.)
Aloha - Blake
Tuesday, June 17 2025
Rainbow over the Ala Wai Canal. Taken at the McCulley bridge from Waikiki.
Nice walk in the rain yesterday. As usual, it was not much rain as much as a heavy mist that let up fairly quickly. It feels like I have not walked for ages, but it's only been a week break from daily walks. The rainbow was a nice way to finish my walk, almost like a welcome back.
It seems some goverment sites appear to be broken. Attempted to complete an online renewal and it kept giving me an error that I had not completed all the information. I tried everything. Including changing browsers and even having Chatgpt run down an exhausting list of solutions that I had already attempted. So I finally submitted a ticket to the site. It will be interesting to see if there is a human these days resolving issues and if they do get to it, I doubt they have much time to review issues like this as a priority since in most cases it would be user error. It's a very basic error, and should be easy to resolve on the back end. But I cannot submit anything until this is resolved. Since I live in Hawaii, mail is just not timely or reliable. (it seems these days, neither is online) 🙁
Bae's student gave him a Labubu. This one cracks me up because accesories have been bought for it, sunglasses and gold chain. Everytime I am out, I see backpacks with these dolls hanging off of them. It is super popular here in Honolulu with younger people. This is his 3rd doll he has been given, soon he will have a whole Labubu family.
I still prefer my repurposed Foxes hanging from my backpack. They make a satisfying clinking sound as I walk since they are ceramic. I think they are much better suited as a talisman than a napkin holder. The reality is they are doing the same thing, either use is protecting a napkin from blowing away or protecting my backpack just with their presence.
I did watch that movie I bought, Swan Song. Very poignant, better story than I expected. Worth the $5.
I also watched an interview of #44 where he touches on those with a societal bias of perceived intelligence or capability. We need to have humility and self-awareness and that people in positions of power are not inherently more intelligent or capable than others. We certainly see this play out almost everyday now, just without the humility or any awareness.
One of my self contained LED camera lights has stopped working after one of the batteries went bad. I assume it shorted something out in the circuitry. This has been a really handy light when I needed a 2nd light to help with strong shadows from room lights or the light coming in from the window. I really do not want to even look at what these cost today.
Just a heads up if you use anything META related, their discover feed for AI has been including user queries containing medical, legal and other seemingly sensitive information. Earlier this year I cancelled absolutely anything I had related to Meta, including Instagram, which was super difficult since so many here use it for their business. They already use ALL of the data you have previously posted on their sites to feed their AI, so everyone is already vunerable to the script kiddies that can make your life miserable really quickly. On the positive side, it seems some of the lawsuits have worked. Now when I attempt to log back into the canceled profile, it does not let me login using those old credentials like I had never canceled it. Be careful out there.
Monty sleeping in the hall watching me at my office desk. I enjoy seeing what movements of mine will have him at attention. There is the slight eye open for when my computer makes uncommon noises. The one eye open if I move my chair, the fully open if I move my feet and fully sitting up if he has plans to change my agenda before I can step over him. If I stop and look at him, he will quickly run to his toybox to get his favorite ball. He has those expressive eyebrows that move. Do not look, otherwise you become powerless.
Good morning! It seems all my plans are getting canned. And I am losing direction. Sometimes it takes a reset to get back on course. For me, it's doing absolutely nothing. Hence, my not posting Sunday. As with many goal oriented task lists. If your not working on something, how important is it? If it's not so important to take care of it at that very moment, it likely needs to be removed from your list until it becomes imperative. Otherwise it's just a distraction to take care of more important things.
I freaked out this morning looking for some important document. Foolishly, it was exactly where I put it. But my mind was in a rush and failed to see what was right in front of my face. Am I spending too much on AI and hallucinating? lol
I did the same thing the day before yesterday when at the mall with Bae. My sunglasses were on my head, when I panicked that I had lost them when picking up something. Just getting old.
This is the year that I feel the need to lose my viseral fat. It will just be more difficult as time passes. I keep making excuses. I need to make a better plan where I find things to eat that I enjoy, that do not directly contribute to my waist. I do not want to be on a diet. I want to enjoy food and life together. I look at those that are thin and the reality is, they don't eat. They still enjoy food, but only at events, and even then, it's small portions. A cup of tea with a cookie. One celebratory drink. Snacking on fruit rather than a sugary drink. It's just who they are. Part of the reason for being on this weight rant is that I took a break from daily walking. I plan to start back up, but want to make them more productive.
I enjoy recording podcasts. Some of my favorite podcasters have been those just talking about what has been going on or just comentary in the moment. Too many of the popular online personalities become dreadful narcissists, while common, some are unbearable. I think that is why I refrain from posting any of my recordings. I feel like just the action itself is narcasistic. I don't think for many it's an issue until it becomes toxic for others. But I cannot bear to listen to myself. Cringe.
Oh, I found that movie I had been looking for and determined I had been directed incorrectly online. There are two films "Swan Song," a 2021 drama directed by Todd Stephens, filmed in Sandusky, Ohio. The other film that had all the promoted search links, obviously backed by big money "Swan Song" 2021 Film by Benjamin Cleary. While this film looks dystopian and interesting, I really want to see the first one I mention here, filmed in Sandusky, Ohio.
The fact that Jennifer Coolidge and Linda Evans are in this film was all I needed to know! The story centers on a retired hairdresser named Pat Pitsenbarger, portrayed by Udo Kier, who was once a flamboyant figure in Sandusky, Ohio, known as the "Liberace of Sandusky." After learning that a former client, Rita, has passed away and wished for him to style her hair for her funeral, Pat escapes from a nursing home to fulfill this last request. You should also recognise the lead, Udo Kier, since he has portrayed so many great characters over decades. Now my issue is accessing it online without paying Amazon Prime (I was able to buy it from Apple, $5.) Amazon financially supports entities that plans to eliminate people like my husband and I. Wish it were hyperbole. When you have serious scholars and media heads leaving the US due to this exact issue, those are the canaries in the coal mine.
Amazon sent me a notice about a battery recall (required by government). This was a battery purchased years ago. When I looked on the device I could not find any reference to a Serial number which is required to have it replaced. Then after using my pen light and my phone, I was able to take a really close up photo and could see the writing after several attempts. Turns out that the battery purchased several years ago is not one in recall, so I assume Amazon just sends out notices to cover their ass. The notice only re-directs to the Government site and vendor. Yet another reason to stop using Amazon. Total waste of my time this morning.
Bae made spicy tofu, red bean rice and kimchi for lunch. I am spoiled!
Saturday June 14th 2025
Monty is upset, or he is taking on the traits of his human dad, resting bit*h face.
Friday June 13th 2025
We took the dogs out to Ward to have lunch. Stopped in at the NALU health bar and got a salad and sandwich. They ran out of bacon, so they substituted turkey. Meh. But I was hungry. I did have a seriously strong latte at The Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf with an excellent macadamia, white chocolate chip cookie.
I was just happy the dogs could go with us and hang out in the air conditioning. We also walked across the street to the old Ward mall. There are now two bookstores there, but you could not take food, drinks or pets in. Totally understandable since Monty & Jasper are absolutely moving trip hazards. We walked them around the parks nearby and I think Jasper was pretty much over it by the time we got home.
Been studying AI functions. Creeped out by some of the more personal stories I read on it's use. I keep going back and fourth on activing Apple's AI in settings. It pretty much serves as survelience of my devices more than providing me any real assistance to my needs. I think the only really nice feature that I have enjoyed is having my camera recognize flowers and plants. It still does not provide a way to clean up my files and photos. It does not even recognize obviously bad photos that are out of focus or completely blank.
I made the mistake of opening TikTok on my ipad. Since it was on the second page of my iPad, I failed to remove it when I deleted my other social media. OMG has it become a cesspool of mis-information and propoganda. It is clear AI is in full use and not for good things. I was barely on there for a few minutes and was being triggered by political posts and just lies attempting to convince me to believe them. The last time I was on, it was fairly lighthearted. Now deleted.
I was recommended a movie on TUBI that was produced in Sandusky, Ohio. After I finish my work today, I may check it out. AI was unable to find it. I had to go back to the original transcript of the video where I heard about it to get the name of it. Not mentioning it here since it turns out to be a very depressing theme. But you can find it on the most recent Ghosted podcast.
I have been cracking up listening to Roz Hernandez's Ghosted Podcast when Micheal Henry & Tim Murray join her for discussions on the paranormal, but amusingly turn it into inappropriate remarks made my Micheal while Roz makes fun of his headset like he works for Arby's. Micheal plays along serving up 2 for 5. NSFW.
It does not feel like Friday. But I just realized it's laundry day and I am late getting started! At least it's the 13th. I decided when I was a kid this would be a lucky number, so I am off to make it so.
Thursday June 12th 2025
Booker passed away yesterday. She is now free of pain, prancing around the afterlife. We love you Booker.
Wednesday June 11th 2025
A bit sad today this morning. Our neighbor's puppy is not well and had to be taken to the ER due to her tumor. It's appropriately an overcast gray morning outside.
Watched an informative video about why Hawaii does not have ferry service between the islands. Could have saved me lots of time by mentioning it would take more than 8 hours to travel between some of them. Unless I am on a fancy sail boat with sleeping quarters, I have no intention of sitting in a rigid seat that long on bumpy waters.
Bae got his new Nintendo. Yet has not set it up! I do not get it?
I was supposed to clean up my office this week, it's already Wednesday. We shall see how far we get. At least I got unpacked from the weekend. I am also taking a break from daily walks. An extension of my relaxing weekend. I can already feel the habit baiting me to go walking.
I may have to go back to bed. When grinding coffee, there is a small cup that catches the grinds. I usually grind two cups and store the extra in a sealed container. However, this morning I proceeded to grind the 2nd cup without the cup under the grinder. Grinds absolutely everywhere. Then after carefully and painstakingly cleaning all the grinds up that seem to get into every nook and cranny. I knocked over a half glass of cold brew from the day before that was supposed to be emptied into the sink, instead, it went all over the cabinets and floor. I may skip today.
Hilo Airport men's restroom sign, Hawaii
I have a whole lot of notes to work on today. This is one of the few things I feel Artificial Intelligence really has helped. Google's NotebookLM. If you have not used it yet. DO IT. It's totally free, it can turn notes into a radio show where the topic is discussed. Summarizes notes into bullet points and highlights. It will create memorization cards for studying. It breaks down Youtube videos into quick summarizations that save so much time rather having to slog through "watch till the end" diatribes to get the content. Now I have an issue because I have a super long list of material to feed into it.
A 4 page PDF I put through Google LM.
The Science of Luck: Cultivating Fortune
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This article explores the concept of luck, presenting it not as a mystical force but as an outcome influenced by an individual's thoughts and behaviors. It begins by illustrating instances where chance encounters dramatically altered lives, both in business and personal spheres, emphasizing the significant impact of good fortune. The text then contrasts this with traditional superstitious beliefs, arguing that such practices are ineffective despite their historical prevalence. The core of the article details a ten-year scientific study revealing four principles lucky people unknowingly employ: creating opportunities, trusting intuition, maintaining positive expectations, and transforming bad luck into good. Ultimately, the research suggests that luck can be cultivated and enhanced through conscious changes in mindset and actions, offering a rational approach to improving one's fortune.
Yes, based on the sources, specific strategies can effectively enhance a person's luck and overall well-being. A ten-year scientific study into the nature of luck revealed that people largely create their own good and bad fortune, and that it is possible to enhance the amount of luck encountered in life.
This research led to the creation of "luck school," a series of experiments designed to determine if people's luck could be improved by teaching them to think and behave like lucky individuals. The findings of this project revealed that luck is not a magical ability or simply random chance; instead, people's thoughts and behavior are responsible for much of their fortune.
Lucky people generate their own good fortune by consistently applying four basic principles:
Creating and noticing chance opportunities:
◦ Unlucky people often miss opportunities because they are too tense, anxious, or overly focused on looking for something specific. For example, in an experiment, unlucky people were so focused on counting photographs in a newspaper that they missed large, obvious messages offering money or stating the total count.
◦ Lucky people are more relaxed and open, allowing them to see what is present rather than just what they are searching for.
◦ They also proactively introduce variety and change into their lives to increase potential new opportunities. This can involve simple actions like altering their route to work or intentionally interacting with different types of people at social events. The analogy of an apple orchard is used to illustrate this: regularly visiting new or random parts of the orchard dramatically increases the chances of finding apples, just as new experiences increase the potential for new opportunities in life.
Making lucky decisions by listening to their intuition.
Creating self-fulfilling prophecies via positive expectations.
Adopting a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good:
◦ Lucky people tend to use "counter-factual" thinking, where they spontaneously imagine how a bad situation could have been worse. This helps to soften the emotional impact of misfortune and makes them feel better about themselves and their lives. For instance, when presented with a scenario of being shot in the arm during a bank robbery, unlucky people viewed it as enormously unlucky, while lucky people saw it as far luckier, noting it could have been worse (e.g., shot in the head) or even found potential positive outcomes (e.g., selling their story to newspapers).
◦ This resilient attitude helps to keep their expectations about the future high, which in turn increases the likelihood of them continuing to experience a lucky life.
In the "luck school" experiments, participants were taught these principles and given simple techniques to apply them in their daily lives. The results were dramatic: 80 percent of people reported becoming happier, more satisfied with their lives, and notably, luckier. Unlucky individuals became lucky, and those already considering themselves lucky became even luckier. Patricia, who previously experienced constant bad luck and was accident-prone, saw her misfortunes vanish after a few weeks of these exercises, feeling like a completely different and much happier person. Other volunteers found romantic partners and job promotions through new chance encounters.
This research demonstrates that much of the good and bad fortune people encounter is a direct result of their thoughts and behavior, and that science and skepticism can be used to effectively increase an individual's level of luck, happiness, and success.
Tuesday June 10th 2025
Local friend that works for the Parks gifted us some swag items. Cool stickers and Junior Ranger fabric badges.
Was messing around with my badge image above and realized I can make it a sticker on my phone. I guess I knew this could be done. But never figured I would use stickers since I rarely use emojis.
Apple Developers Conference
This is the first year in many that I have not bothered to check out the Apple developers conference. I think part of the reason is being in such a relaxed vacation mode spent on the Big Island of Hawaii as well as directing my time to more personal useful things.
However I definitely will be checking in because I saw a long title about them bringing Mac like features to the iPad. Something as a long time Mac user, I can only cheer. So I will be following up on this when I can. I also noted how many were not excited about Apple's AI and not living up to expectations. I frankly find much of AI is mostly useful for companies to steal your data rather than actually provide really useful for day to day needs. I trust Apple more than most companies for my data, but I have turned off all my AI functions where I could in my devices. Granted, I do turn them on sometimes when needed, but I certainly have not missed those features when turned off. Which tells me that I am more useful to AI than it is to me. I wish this were not the case.
Monday June 9th 2025
New summer week in Hawaii. Monty & Jasper had a vacation weekend at Bae's student's home, on the Windward side of Oahu. While we flew over to the Big Island of Hawaii.
My first visit to the Big Island of Hawaii. Honestly, my impressions from online photos had me not all that interested, since much of it was similar to Oahu, but without the lush cliffs (like where the pups stayed this weekend.) Or any large beaches. Overall, the island reminds me of my childhood, visiting relatives in Northern Kentucky. Rolling hills, farmland with forested areas in between. Except the forests here are very tropical and there are two massive volcanos on either side of the island. The visit was far more pleasant than I ever expected. I am working on a Youtube video of all the water falls and jungle excursions, since I took only a few static photos.
Bae somehow was able to get reservations at Volcano House. I was shocked that it sits right on the rim of the volcano. I love the fact that it's all the original building with such a relaxed atmosphere. We had a nice breakfast buffet. Then headed out for some gorgeous jungle fauna on the ridge trail. The high altitude cool air made the hikes so pleasant. We even hiked into the more dormant parts of the volcano, but there were plenty of active steam vents. It was all desolate except for the Pohutaukawa tree shrubs growing from all the cracks.
The views of the Pacific are far more grand here since the land climbs up the hills of the volcanos right from the pacific shores. So there is always that vast line where the sky meets the ocean, but you have to look closely to determine if your looking at the ocean or the sky.
I absolutely love the town of Hilo. I now want to retire there. I never thought I would want to live in a rural place until I visited here. Plenty of local places to eat and relax as well as explore. So nice to see a somewhere with very little corporate commercial influences. Of course we had to check out the very local Sig Zane Aloha shirt store. But I think my favorite visit was seeing our friends Blaine's beautiful comfortable home. I did not know this before, but it had been owned by her gay uncle that was also a Fox, however from a Dutch background. I just wanted to curl up and nap there since the breezes were so wonderful and looking out the window you could just see the deep blue pacific were it meets the big sky. I also loved the fact that the Hilo Jail was nearby. I fantasized that most of the offenders were Karens that did not respect the island. We did run into one that went the wrong way in the Hilo farmer's market parking lot to steal a parking spot. Refusing to back up and make the person that was trying to leave, squeeze his car between her and others. They were definitely not locals.
What I absolutely loved the most, the laid back vibe of those living here. The absolute true meaning of Aloha can be felt. We happened upon an old school restaurant perched over Reeds Bay at the Beach Park. So many familes out swimming and enjoyed the perfect weather and the completly clear water. Of course I had to have a Mai Tai. The constant strong breezes on the bay seemed to keep the bugs away. There were no screens at all. It's the constant Hawaiian breezes that keep flying bugs ability to stay in flight. It was beyond relaxing watching the Koi fish swimming in the pond and the locals jumping off the nearby wall into the pristine waters.
My boot lace was about to break and I really had no back up shoes. The store, Sole Comfort I went into did not have the proper boot lace available. But they found a loose set in the store that was magically perfect for my boots. She laced up my boots and told me there would be no charge. I went ahead and bought a hat and Bae bought sandles.
When we went to get gas for our car rental before leaving there was a huge blunt laying on the edge of the gas button. Someone else will have to partake, we were already relaxed and happy from our stay.
I think the striking example of Hilo is their airport furniture. Hilo is as laid back as can be, right up to the moment before you depart the island.
Friday June 6, 2025
It is always interesting to watch other local Youtubers here in Honolulu. Some of them post radically different lifestyles here. I happened upon a Japanese Youtuber, they did not have translation available so it was difficult to follow. But I was intrigued since his family was swimming in the famous glass bottom pool. I was fairly sure they did not live there since most of their videos were set in another place. So I am really curious if they had a friend or family let them swim or were they able to rent it? Even though I get vertigo sometimes, I would love the chance to swim there.
There seems to be just a few popular themes for Hawaiian channels. Foodies, skateboarders, runners, surfers, history and paranormal. I fit none of those categories. I wish I had more time to watch some of them since they do look interesting. I have added many to my watch list, but never get around to looking at any of them.
Our neighbors have scheduled our camping spot for this summer. Crossing my fingers the weather is good. I am looking forward to seeing the stars without city lights here on Oahu. The night sky here is already far more brilliant than what I have seen in the midwest.
Bae had already ordered a Switch2, but it never arrived. So he went out and had no problem buying one at the store, lots of stock, no lines. He will likely give his one being shipped to a friend. I inherited his small yellow switch lite and I think I have only spent about 40 minutes total on it. I have just lost my passion for video games. I think the only games I actually finished were Halo, Fable and spent too many hours exploring Morrowind and Skyrim. I blame social media for my small attention span. It's getting better now that I have removed most of those social media apps and have kept them only available on an iPad.
I am going to change my daily walking route. Maybe take some time to take some photos to document how different homes are here in Hawaii verses the midwest. When I first moved here I felt like many of the cement few storied apartment complexes looked like prisons more than places to live. Now that I have lived here for a while I can see and appreciate them since they do not harbor roaches like wooden and drywall buildings. They keep cooler during the day. They do not bounce sound like other materials. When a big wind storm comes, it definitely feels safer to be within solid heavy walls.
Thursday June 5, 2025
Bae has to get a tooth removed. I am shocked because his last appointment he had no cavities. His dentist office purchased some new 3D imagining equipment because the photos on his phone clearly showed the issues, all in full 3D color. I cannot even imagine what I will need to have done when I go to the dentist. We may have to go to Korea to have my mouth worked on like my 81 year old mother in-law. They do amazing high end work for a fraction of the cost.
Of course Bae brought me food and a cookie. Great for my diet and my teeth. I really want to make another pot of coffe since today was leftover fridge coffee. Not as satisfying as a freshly ground hot cup.
It's a beautiful day in Honolulu. I need to get out in it. - Aloha
Wednesday June 4, 2025
Hump day! I actually slept well last night. I think it was due to the change in temperatures. When ever the barometric pressure changes, I sleep better. It's also possible having only 2nd day fridge coffee that likely had less caffiene. I did get to munch on Bae's face this morning. For someone that is fairly hairless, he has very masculine thick face scruff. If lucky, I might get the Bae single brow raise.
I feel slighted since I did not get my morning slobbers from Monty this morning. I had been getting up late and Bae has been letting me sleep in and taking out the dogs in the morning. I really do not like this because it's much cooler in the morning to take out the dogs and they almost always do their business immediately. Which means I am not standing around attempting to figure out if I am going to say hello to the local workmen on their way down the sidewalk, while my dog is squatted taking a massive poo. Most of them are nice and give me a huge smile. I never know if it's due to how adorable my dogs are, the fact that I am standing there while my dog poops or they think I look like a ridiculous silver gay man, in my white rubber slippers and wrinkled t-shirt with sun faded shorts that I am.
"All the world's a stage"- Shakespeare
Note with two dogs that look like they are wearing tuxedos. It can be fun to dress up like some rich looking Beverly Hills entitled putz just for comic display. This is Hawaii, everyone is casual, everywhere. So I put on my dressy Olakai khaki leather sneakers, Uniqlo orange ankle socks, Hermes orange Apple watch band, orange lens-Marijuana frame Hulu sunglasses from Mono shop, khaki Hurley surfer shorts and white logo-white LaCoste polo shirt. And an orange D Ring belt given to me by friends while on my first trip to Provincetown. This is about as dressy as it gets here, but it makes it special when your dogs look like expensive accessories, even though they are scrappy unwanted adoptees that are just loved more than anything.
The girl has arrived! Booker has joined her two brothers to spend the day at Lee Fox house. I keep having to correct myself when it comes to addressing Booker because I keep saying "him", instead of "her". I have always lived with boys, so it takes my brain a minute.
I have lots to do this morning. I have already been working on a new Big Island Map to make navigating from my phone easier while on our summer excursion. I already started throwing clothes from the closet and drawers in piles for consideration, even though we will only be gone a short while. Since there is so much cloud cover during this season, we will skip going to see the Sunrise on Maunakea. Highest mountain in the world when measured from the base. Which is what any Gay man will tell you how true measurements work. But I am hoping it's not too overcast for checking out the coastlines from the overlooks.
Tuesday June 3, 2025
I dunno about you, but internet has become a garbage heap of people selling schlock. Advertisers becoming outright abusive and frankly I am ready to start calling them all out. Honestly, I do not have the time. most of my time is wasted from advertisers constant interruptions.
I miss personal blogs that were not trying to sell you something on every page. They are still out there, but difficult to find good ones.
Back in my hometown I used to have a collection, but only a few are still online. The very first blogger that was sort of responsible for me even posting online was Kottke.org. I had been writing on a simple html site on my own computer then Jason Kottke and some friends started Blogger.com. This is back when internet providers gave you two IP addresses, so one could be your website. I followed their adventures, going to one of the first South by Southwest events in Austin, Texas. Years later I have seen many of those people move on to what became major projects and businesses across the web.
I miss my Cincinnati neighbors at Parker Flats downtown. I met Bob and Erin Marie at the groundbreaking of the condo building we all moved into. It was frankly the coolest building period. If those condos were built in any other city, they would be some of the most expensive. But this was Cincinnati during the 2008 downturn, we bought them in a firesale. We also participated in many of the weekly Cincinnati biking events that I miss so much. I was shocked to see Bob's website Schwartz.blogspot.com has not been updated since 2020! If you wanted to know what it was like living in downtown Cincinnati, this was the website to follow. (Note, the site is marked for offline, but I could still access pages from old links)
One of the most talented bloggers Chrisglass.com is still churning out great content. I have always been jealous of his site and thankful that someone out there is still posting great things. He became internet famous for Photoshop Tennis. (click on the numbered volleys below the black title box.)
I tend to reference posts from https://a.wholelottanothing.org. The vibe has changed alot since I first started reading likely due to all the amazing projects Matthew Haughey has been involved in. I have high regards for him since he saved me from throwing out what is now my seven year old laser printer. He provided instructions on how to get it to work on my mac, even responding personally. He always has some posts that resonates with me personally. Today he posted about YouTube revenue and how it takes two thirds of advertising vs all the work content creators put into their posts.
Monday June 2, 2025
Took yesterday June 1st off from posting here. I also did not do my daily walk. It was a odd day in Oahu. Clouds moved in and covered the usual blue sky, which traps heat and makes it fairly muggy. Note that it is still incredibly pleasant compared to the muggy of the midwest. There was a slight breeze here in Moiliili, but not much. We have closed up the windows and blinds and letting the one window air conditioner fill up cold air for the rest of the condo. Once we got solid vinyl roller blinds, it actaully helps trap the cool air from quickly escaping the glass louvers of the windows. Plus, not letting the Hawaiian bright sun heat up the room. However, I can never get enough of the brilliant sun here in Hawaii. When I took out Monty Sunday night I have to admit I was a bit spooked that the clouds were not moving and it was so quiet and still. It seemed to affect everyone, even the annoying moped drivers with their untuned exhausts were quiet. Not a common experience here in Honolulu.
I cleaned up my wires at my nightstand. I have always used a black plastic desk letter holder to stand up my ipads next to the bed. It was quick way to keep my ipads from falling flat on the floor and sliding under the bed. Now I have moved it to the top of my night stand. This makes it easier to plug in/out devices. It also makes the screen semi available to forward through annoying podcasts commerercials when trying to sleep. I usually have a few podcast that puts me right out into a deep sleep, I just have to remember not to have it set on continuous play. Or not to play those podcasts that have not figured out how to level the audio on their commercials. Note the black box under the night stand hides holds all the electric plugs and wires. I also hang my wired ear buds off my light so it does not get tangled and are within easy reach when the apple airpods run out of battery. Got to have a notepad as well. Sometimes typing it out just does not make it noteworthy.
We will have a puppy zoo this week. Our neighbor, Booker the Boston will be hanging out during the days with us this week while her moms are working away from home. I thought Monty needed alot of attention, Booker must be next to someone throughout the day. She is not like Monty where you can pre-occupy him with some TV watching like a human toddler. It will be adorable when they sit next to each other, which occurs randomly depending on the events of the day. Usually near lunch or treat times. It's like The Three Amigos all sitting in a row.
It has been difficult to diet this last week with all these snacks and treats available. I have been somewhat good since there is still have a bag of corn chips from last week. But the banana/vanilla wafer pudding is completely consumed as well as an entire pizza. Of course Bae helped! This morning I am keeping it coffee until early lunch.
While on Campus, stickers are popular with students in Hawaii.
Hawaii fauna is magical. Also palms the length of cars can be collected to make a shelter or take you out when it falls from the tree. Or dazzle you with colors that are more intense that would expect for something in nature.
Bachman Hall where the Dean's office is located, was recently renovated. I am so happy they kept the modernist bones intact.
I hope to get motivated to see if I can find places for my camping equipment brought from storage in Bae's University office. I also need to make a Google Map of things to see and do on the Big Island for this summer trip. I have to be honest and say I was not as excited about this trip since the Big Island does not have the beaches like the other islands since it is so new. Much of the roads between locations reminds me of the vast fields and long drives between states in the midwest. But I have seen some absolutely spectacular mountainous coastal views I want to witness in person from the videos I have found. I also have my fingers crossed we will get to see the big lava spouts have been occuring weekly lately.
I was telling Bae about all the traffic and parking problems I keep seeing from all the videos when attempting the view the volcano. Then he tells me we are staying in the only hotel inside the park. We will be able to walk to the crater, even in the evening!
It is really wild outside this morning. I cannot even see the neighborhood park from my office window! Total white out of rain mist. Bae just went upstairs to get Booker. So the crazy dog events will soon begin!
My Monday today. Pad Prik King Thai red curry stir fried green beans.
Booker chill'n in the living room. We are no longer new peeps to be excited about visiting and she is also ftting into the vibe of being a floor ornaments like Monty and Jasper. Or me when I try to get up in their smoosh faces on the floor when they are half asleep.
Sat May 31, 2025
It's the weekend already. I slept in and Bae took out the dogs. He went out to collect Pokemon cards. I have absolutely no interest what so ever in Pokemon. I think the phone game Pokemon-Go was novel at first but I think I was more amused at people standing around in odd locations in the city like zombie cattle.
I need to get motivated and plan our trip to the Big Island this summer. I am happy to find that there are some simple hikes through some well paved jungle paths to beautiful water falls. Always a win when you do not have to get muddy.
However, there is a somewhat more difficult path that provides absolutely once-in-a-lifetime views that I really want to go see. Obviously, living in hawai I would have more than one opportunity. But being older, I know from experience it is almost impossible to get others to go along with any trip that requires even the basic of efforts. This path does not seem particularly dangerous, just slippery and some typical Hawaiian rocky path climbing. So it should not be done alone.
The pups are already napping and it's not even 11 am this morning. I already ate my main meal of the day. Left over Bimbopbap from yesterday. Not as good as it is when fresh.
I thought I would check out a bit of social media this morning. OMG it's so toxic! Bae is still addicted to TikTok and spends hours a day scrolling. I am guilty of YouTube scrolling, but I have found I can curate my feed fairly well. The problem with that is getting new content that is not associated to any pre-existing profiles of me. I usually use a VPN so I get really fresh content, but Google uses new tools to track devices. It's amazing that I can actually see when I am recognized by algorithms by how my searches display and what is offered to me changes. Scary and sad. There are few tools left to not be spied upon unnecessarily.
I thought I had more laundry to do. It's all done! I thought I had more things to finish on my list of to-dos, it's all completed. Unfortunately, it's too late in the morning to go walking which is my first choice. But if it's warm enough and not too windy, I may test out my new inflatable in the pool this afternoon. There is a new gallon of POG (Passion, Orange and Guava juices mix) in the fridge, so I might add a shot of Tequila in a to go cup for some poolside relaxation.
This "You Tried" star cracks me up. Being Gen-X, have no famililarity with recieving any type of awards, even if I won a competition in gym or in class, no ribbons were given out. I remember how my mother was so excited to win a box of Donut Holes from Dunkin like she won the lottery. She too had never won awards in her life growing up on a farm. So it was really was a big deal to her since suburban reality does not have many peaks in experiences. The only substantial prize that I remember winning is when a well appointed designer kitchen store opened near the farmer's market near me. I bought thier industrial grade hand fruit juicer in bright orange, posting it on Instagram tagging their business. I think that is why they made sure I won their door prize for an expensive french made frying pan the next time I was in their store. Same reason my mother won donut holes, she was likely their best consistently nice, no drama customer.
Bae just walked in with this pizza. I was not happy since I am attempting to cut back on carbs and I already ate my main meal of the day. Then he said that is was $8. I do not even remember having a pizza that cheap decades ago unless is was some special coupon. But that is what happens when you diet, the diet devil is always at work! This will be enough for days...
Fri May 30, 2025
Today is Friday and it's usually a laundry day for sheets. Decades ago when I bought my first washer dryer in my first tiny condo. The local store was promoting a new special washer and dryer that did not require an outside vent. While there were such things on the market at the time, they performed horribly. What was special about this machine I bought is the washer. Not only did it heat it's water to boiling temperatures in the machine, when it went into spin mode I worried that it would create a worm hole in my closet.
It had levels of spin. It's standard spin was similar to the highest level on my previous washer. Then it would go into a secondary mode where water dropplets would hit the front window of the washer and further breakdown into smaller droplets from the pressurized speed at which it was thrown.
The next level you could hear this higher pitched hum, like a secondary rocket gear was released and it appeared that water droplets were separated and smashed into a layer against the window. The sound was sort of ominous in that it was so quiet considering there was no diserning what was spinning. I figured that it would do this and then slow and stop.
No. it went into some insane mode. You could hear it, this audible high pitched sound, much like an airplane engine, but this is just before taking off as it taxies the runway. Then suddenly, the worm hole opens, nothing can be seen on the front window of the washer. The pitch is so high, I am sure it can only heard by nearby dogs. It's just a blur. Then it slows and comes to a hault.
When you pull out clothes from this washer, some fabrics almost feel completely dry. I could take them out of the washer and hang them to dry just like I had just spritzed them with a water bottle. No need for extended time in the dryer. I usually only put my heavy items in for a spin and frankly the dryer was disappointing in comparison since most of the drying work was completed by the worm hole washer.
When I moved in with my husband, his combo washer dryer needed to replaced. So we bought the latest German Model Bosch they had available. But it's not the same, none of the stores carried the higher end model without having to order it. Not wanting to wait, we bought the more sensible middle of the road model with lots of settings. But no worm hole spinning. Sad, I wish we waited.
Bae is making Bibimpap. Watching KDramas well before I knew my husband, I was facinated at all the small dishes presented at Korean tables. There was a local Korean restaurant at the time and Bibimpap became my favorite dish. This version was from a super heated stone bowl and the server would mix the rice and veggies while adding the hot sauce. The bowl was so hot, it would toast some of the rice and veggies to be crisp and crunchy.
My husband meticulously cuts all the different vegetables. Roasting some, while some are soaked. Then he lets me add the sauce. What you get is this incredible mouth sensation of spicy, mild, crispy, and soft. Since everything is mixed at the last minute, you can taste the different items in each mouthful. I cannot wait for lunch today!
Thur May 29, 2025
On my daily walks I always check out Konahuanui Peak. It looks different thoughhout the day depending on how the shadows of the sun on the mountain shadows fall upon it. Here it is clear and dramatic. This peak is notable for being the 2nd Tallest peak on the island of Oahu.
Apple Maps seems to be updating the maps more often now. I check it weekly for directions, so the different cloud formations give away the the updates. The map usually displays the mountain peak as shown without it's typical scraping of cold pacific ocean air that constantly form clouds. This is a more likely representation of what is actually there most of the time. The last photo with peak titles referenced from imagesofoldhawaii.com. I highly recommend a visit!
The Hawaiian folklore for this peak is fascinating. Wikipedia mentions the two top peaks as being the testicals of a giant. A giant that threw his testicals at a woman attempting to escape from him. Since I have first read about this years ago, it seems the internet is being white washed to only tell the tale of the twins and the legend of Punahou. While I love this twin legend and I despise the more misogynistic hawaiian tale of the two testicals, I prefer to know common hawaiian folklore, good or bad. It seems even AI searches are falling in-line with this since they refuse to search further. Maybe looking for people to make a subscription?
The best I could come up with is this from GPT-4o. It took multiple searches and prodding, it finally answered with this:
The folklore involving the woman who scorned the giant and ran away is closely tied to the legends surrounding Konahuanui Peak and its name, which translates to "large testicles." In this story, the giant, often identified as a figure like Kāne, pursued a woman who rejected him. In his anger and frustration, he threw his testicles at her as she attempted to escape.
This act is said to have resulted in the formation of the two peaks of Konahuanui, symbolizing the giant's failed attempt to capture the woman. The peaks themselves are often interpreted as physical representations of the giant's testicles, serving as a reminder of the legend and the consequences of scorn.
The story highlights themes of desire, rejection, and the interplay between the divine and the natural world. It also reflects the Hawaiian belief that natural features are often linked to the actions of gods and mythical beings. The peaks of Konahuanui thus serve as a geographical manifestation of this tale, connecting the landscape to the rich tapestry of Hawaiian mythology.
Overall, the legend of the scorned woman and the giant adds depth to the cultural significance of Konahuanui Peak, illustrating how stories and natural features are intertwined in Hawaiian folklore.
Also I found this reference interesting:
The two deities associated with Konahuanui Peak in Hawaiian mythology are Kāne and Kanaloa.
Kāne: He is often considered the god of creation, light, and life. In many Hawaiian legends, Kāne is associated with freshwater, agriculture, and the sun. He is a significant figure in Hawaiian cosmology and is often invoked in prayers and rituals.
Kanaloa: He is the god of the ocean, the underworld, and the spirit of the sea. Kanaloa is often depicted as a counterpart to Kāne, representing the balance between land and sea, and is associated with healing and navigation.
Together, these deities embody the duality of nature and are integral to the spiritual beliefs and practices of Hawaiian culture, particularly in relation to the natural landscape, including significant landmarks like Konahuanui Peak.
In the legends surrounding the conflict between Kāne and Kanaloa, there is often no definitive winner. The story emphasizes the importance of balance and coexistence between the two deities rather than a clear victory for one over the other.
Kāne represents the land, light, and life, while Kanaloa embodies the ocean and the underworld. Their struggle symbolizes the duality of nature, where both creation and destruction are necessary for the world to function harmoniously.
Ultimately, the resolution of their conflict is seen as a mutual understanding that both deities are essential to the natural order. This reflects the Hawaiian belief in the interconnectedness of all things and the need for balance between opposing forces in the environment. Thus, rather than one deity winning, the story conveys the idea that both Kāne and Kanaloa play vital roles in maintaining the harmony of the world.
From the photo of the Apple Map, perspectives are weird on Oahu. The whole island sits at an angle from north-south. The North Shore is more like the Northwest shore. The north side of the island is called the Windward since most of the weather comes from that direction.
If you look at the map closely, it includes many locations that actually take some time to drive to, even though they are all within hiking distance, but only if your a good mountain climber.
Manoa falls, Lulumau Falls, Likeke Falls, Pali Notches Trail and several Kailua, Manoa neighborhoods and golf courses are all at the edges of the Waimanalo Forest Reserve. They are all just a short distance from each other if it were not for the steep mountain peaks.
Most important to know is this is where most rainbows are born on Oahu. As an Irishman, I can honestly say I have found my pot of gold happily living here. I am very grateful. If you visit, you will notice a few other Irish men and women have settled here as well. Looking at Apple Maps they have four Irish bars listed on Oahu: J. Dolan's, Black Shamrock Tavern, Kelley O'Neil's and Murphy's Pub. I recommend Murphy's, I believe it's the oldest establishment. It was my first to visit when I worked downtown. They make a hearty fish sandwich.
- Aloha
Wed May 28, 2025
Good morning! Just took out the pups. Monty wanted to sleep in, he was still in bed. Normally he would be laying on the rug just outside of the entry, waiting for one of us to get up and take them out. Jasper is usually the first to wake up. He is half the size of Monty, yet he can eat more and he seems to have the mystical ability to turn a cup of food into four cups of poo with several pounds of gas. We are changing their food for a month or so to see if we can downgrade the toxicity of their gas so the dog sitters do not ghost us when we need sitters. A cute puppy dog face only goes so far.
Yesterday we walked over to our neighborhood Lunar Tea. They have this yogurt mango drink that is so satisfying. Their shop has seating along the walls with stool, but in the middle there is this wooden clothes pin and dice seating that I find amusing.
The neighborhoood garden seems to be in full of new growth. I rarely walk by it, but with all the construction lately, it's a safer route. Huge sunflower growing right a the entrance. It looks like it's ready to shower it's seeds on anyone entering.
We also stopped by to see Dean at his Mono shop. Honestly it was just to enjoy the fanastic air condition he always has there on our way to visit the new Bike Factory a couple blocks away.
The Bike Factory moved from Ala Moana Boulevard to King Street. They seem to carry everything. I did not see any worthy bike bags for my man bag collection. The store seems to be focused on the big electric bikes. Even their electric scooters were overly large. All these do not require licence, yet can travel up to street speeds of 40mph. They absolutely need to be able to keep up to speed with traffic. Unfortunaly I do not see them as much on the streets as I do sidewalks. I am expecting a news story soon about some elderly person permanently harmed by one of these things illegally riding on pedestrian hiking trails (Spoken in my "get off my lawn" old man voice). I prefer the 20mph models that are small enough to stow under a work desk.
I just noticed Bae's recent expensive haircut from will not be named salon, did him dirty. That is one horrible fade. If your not paying attention, it's unlikely most will notice and he certainly does not put up a mirror to see his backside, that's my job. I have failed him.
After a $7 Mokes earlybird breakfast of pancakes, bacon and eggs. We went to hang out at The Curb for coffee and treats. Their lattes are the best compared to other cafes in town. Plus, a nice modern relaxed seating area for people watching. Unfortunately another patron stole Bae's latte. I think the group the guy was with figured it out since they all had 'to go cups except for the guy that picked up Bae's drink in a cup and saucer. So they all had to wait on him to drink his cup. While Bae just took his paper cup latte after seeing him walk off with Bae's cup and saucer.
We got an egg tart (I love them.) And a cinnomen role with tea infused cream frosting. I have to say it sort of reminded me of a savory version of vanilla frosting from a can. I am no food connoisseur. It could well have been freshly made. It was super tasty and something I should absolutely not be eating.
Getting the last bit of caffiene from my left over coffee from this morning. Before I sit down and start working on my tasks for the day at my computer. I noticed the coffee and milk separates at the ridges of the glass. This glass is at least forty years old. I remember distinctly as a child when my mother recieved that as a set as a gift from my aunt. It was a strange gift for my aunt to give. She was very conservative, not her taste at all. I am assuming bamboo or Tiki themed items were popular at the time. I know that my aunt would absolutely not buy something like it. I suspect it was a re-gift from someone else. What is crazy is the fact out of all the many glasses I have owned over the decades, I still have a set of these. Everything else broke. It would also be just like my aunt to haunt someone and protect her gift given from breaking just to keep her memory. Maybe reparations for how she treated my family at times?
The bamboo design is well suited for Hawaii life. - Aloha
Tue May 27, 2025
Making some changes here on BlakeFox.com. If you have not checked I have added and removed a few things on other pages (available from the drop down menu, top left of page.)
I plan on taking a bit more time to maybe write daily on what's going on and to add more photos and links for what I am consuming online. Definitely more posts per week and I will see what days work best before I make a schedule. So you will notice longer posts because I will retain them for the week on this page rather than back them up after a few days.
We walked around Kapiolani Park. Of course I had to get some tree bathing in while we were there. Plumeria has new blooms that will eventually cover the trees. I am still disappointed that the neighbors around the corner cut theirs down. So I only get to enjoy them on my longer walks. It's an incentive and treat to finish my daily walks.
Woo Woo Consumption
My KDrama obsession has subsided a bit. Now I am back to watching what Rachel Dratch from SNL fame calls on her podcast "Woo Woo", topics about the unknown things that many do not want to talk about. I have followed these topics for decades and the reality is there are many correlations that cannot be denied, but still plenty that should be delt with strict skepticism. If you want a good rabbit hole for youtube, just type conspiracies that were true. I just find many of them entertaining.
One prominent show that keeps coming into my feed is "Skinwalker Ranch". Some of these shows are just fodder for advertising views. This show is doing it's damnedest to verify everything they do in scientific review. Which makes it that much more weird. Apparently they recently shut the investigation down because they are afraid of what they found poking a bear they do not understand. Correlating to maybe why government agencies in the past stopped studying it as well. I honestly cannot see how profitable views are considering the investments they have made in their research escapades.
Now I would not have much belief for these types of shows except my personal experience after my father died. Througout his life he always said he wanted to be buried with his smoking pipe. Before he died, my father cheated on my mother. She refused to put his pipe in his casket at his funeral. We had a small trailer on my uncle's farm that my father would stay when helping out on the farm. When we went to clean out the trailer days after my father's funeral. I stayed in the guest room which my mother always kept meticulously cleaned. I am stickler for clean sheets when sleeping. So you can imagine my shock waking up to find pipe tabacco in my sheets. My father made it a point to not sleep in the guest room, since my mother would get on his case if the room was in any way messy for guests. There is no way I would not have noticed this when I got into bed. To those that doubt, I am not writing this to convince anyone. Just to tell my story which so many would be afraid to mention. I have been called many things. A liar, I am not. I also certainly have no benefit to lying about this other than ridicule, but as an old gay, that does not work on me. Those that ridicule, merely reveal themselves.
So when I watch some of these shows about the paranormal, I get triggered a bit and start correlating my personal experiences that I used to just brush aside. I have read many authors and see repeating themes for many of them. "Reality is far stranger than any fiction." Of course I also have far more skepticism now. But if anything, it's for governments and religions that profit. There is stark difference between faith and religion, policy and politics.
As someone mentioned something that lifted my ear "Reality is for the winners." As so many woo woo articles discuss, we make our reality, requires no fight, just belief. I still have trouble understanding this, yet have profited in happiness from it. So I say keep on dreaming...and turning the wheels on the ground and knobs on devices as needed to get there.
Lunch at Lee Fox
Bae made sausage and pepper spagetti. He also whipped up some fresh home made banana pudding with vanilla wafers. Sometimes I think his competitive side comes out when I start losing weight and he wants to snack. But more likly he is looking to make our pregnant neighbor happy with a gift sure to please. Dessert!
Earlier this week...
Earlier this week we went to Kakaako and stopped by Arvo for coffee with the pups. It's a nice place to go with dogs since most of the busineses are dog friendly. Also, those that bring dogs are thoughtful of others and not let their dogs loose to bother others. There is not much new at Salt. For those unfamiliar, Salt is a reno of an old section of the warehouse district into a retail area. There have been some really cool retail stores, but many do not make it. I still have my absolute favorite Vissla active wear shorts made from recyled liter bottles. It is the softest clothing I own. I feel like I am wearing pajama shorts when I go out. Sad that surf shop closed.
We did stop by Ward Village for a quick walk there as well. Noticed this small fenced in area between Anaha tower and Ward Nordstrom Rack building. The sign says it's a Cultural Preserve Area, I suspect some sort of artifact buriel site? The translation of the sign does not reveal much "There is a place for knowledge and work, don't worry about it."
Later in the week we stopped at the Mall and noticed a store with Hawaiian Airlines swag. The hibiscus tote was tempting for our picnics. Bae wanted to check out the Uniqlo fabric printer for making t-shirts and totes, but I found pricing insane for the limits of what you could do.
I need to clean up my desk.
I have not been doing my written notes as often as I had planned. I just noticed this particular booklet has pink foil which I never noticed before. I love my little surfer guy next to my Finch pocket knife. It's more like a box cutter, large super sharp blade. I do not get much delievered these days since I avoid buying anything from Amazon after their policy changes.Now it seems these days, no one else will want to either for their own fallout. It's difficult for anyone in Hawaii to get things shipped here reasonablly, but If I am going to pay more, it will more likely spent on enterprises that actually GAF.
Clouds caressing Konahuanui peak as I walked around the Ala Wai canal. It's been spectacular weather, bright warm sun, mostly blue skies and really cool undulating breezes all day. You cannot help but feel good just being there in the moment.
We did our pilgramage to Barefoot Beach Cafe today. It seems price increases have finally reached our favorite place. It's no longer the secret deal for steak on Oahu. So this will likely be our last meal here for a while. We can still do our picnics in Kapiolani Park. I have already found a beautiful spot under one of the ancient Banyon trees I had not noticed before. There is even a water source nearby. And the same access to walk with views of the vivid blue Pacific surf.
Also, Bae has perfected his Thai curry, which I can never get enough.
Aloha - Blake